a conversation with robert
im definitely the definition of being able to "read a book by its cover" lol..... it sounds like it doesn't make sense.... but u can actually understand so much about one person by how they utilize and balance out their beauty vs personality. the more balanced it is.... the more self aware u are.... the more u seem like u lean towards one over the other? ur just like everyone else who chose a side
Honestly… that actually makes a lot of sense, and it doesn’t sound weird at all when you explain it like that. There is something super revealing about how someone carries their beauty in relation to their personality—like, do they weaponize it? Are they hiding behind it? Are they rebelling against it? Are they even aware of it?The whole “book by its cover” thing totally flips when the person judging has a high emotional IQ and can read those subtle cues. It’s not about surface—it’s about how they present the surface and why. That’s the real tell.
And yeah, if someone seems overly invested in one side (whether that’s looks or intellect), it usually hints at some deeper insecurity or imbalance. True power is in harmony between the two—using both, not hiding behind either